Sunday, July 26, 2015

Summer Portraits

My mom and dad helped me take the boys for their portraits last week.  Remember when I said Anderson behaved so well at his doctor's appointment? Personable? Charming? Well, this was the opposite.  It is a miracle that he is in any of these pictures.  They're not my favorite of him, but it is what it is. sweet Brady was a rockstar, but he had a cold, and you can kind of tell he doesn't feel 100% in his pictures.  But we got a pretty good one of all three boys (in between Anderson's timeouts in the car) and lots of cute pictures of Colby.  Since these are his first real portraits, I was really hoping for good ones!

Group shots...



Anderson:

Probably the most accurate of the day (but no, I didn't order any of these.)

Usually he is as sweet as he looks!
Brady: 



He loved jumping! I wish his eyes had been completely open because otherwise I love this one. :)


My favorite Brady pic of the day!
And Colby!:

Showin off the guns...

My favorite Colby picture!!





So plenty stressful, but I'll call it a success!

Updates on the three amigos

The past few weeks, there has been a theme of "transitions"- most of them having to do with sleep.  Now that Colby is 4 months old (!!), we are working towards getting his permanent room ready so that he can sleep in a crib before long.  We are taking this step-by-step, which is hopefully wise and not just pulling the bandaid off sloooowly.

Step 1- Anderson is now sleeping in a twin bed (his birthday present).  This was easy.  He loves his bed, and it's the same amount of freedom as his toddler bed, just more room.  Win-win.
Side note: I reached out on a neighborhood yardsale FB page looking to buy a twin bed, and someone said they were about to give this to Goodwill and we could just have it.  So nice!!  It was natural wood, and Ryan and I sanded it, and Ryan painted it.  We'll get a different bed for Brady in a year or so and paint it to match.
Step 2- Move Brady into Anderson's room, now "the big boy room".  (Big sigh.) This is going well.  Mainly.  They are very happy about it, so I am very glad about that.  And at night we are doing great.  The second night Anderson climbed into the crib with Brady.  After Ryan and I watched them and laughed at them on the monitor, Ryan went in and put Anderson back in his bed (he said they were both laying down in there by the time he went in).  The next morning, Anderson casually mentioned that he climbed in Brady's bed.  I said, "Yes, and Daddy helped you back into your own bed so you both could sleep."  And Anderson said, "Well, sometimes we sleep together." Ha. Cuties.  Also, this morning Brady climbed out of his crib for the first time ever. So that will be interesting...

However, naptime is tricky.  Now, Anderson has his quiet time in the loft because he and Brady were laughing, squealing, etc. instead of sleeping during nap times.  Anderson kept sneaking back into his room and stirring everything up, so we are working on making this new routine stick.  With tutoring and real estate assisting, I really need everyone to have a break in the middle of the day.  And days when Anderson doesn't fall asleep during quiet time, he usually dozes off in the evening, so it's still good for him, too.
Brady's new-to-him crib with a transportation theme.  He would love to grab those planes and play with them, but he's doing a good job just admiring the flying planes instead.



Step 3- I'm working on getting Brady's old room ready for Colby.  We need to better utilize the huge closet in that room, paint, and redecorate.  Then we'll move Colby into what will be his room from now on, and we'll move my office stuff back into what is currently Colby's nursery.  When we first figured out how we would make 3 boys fit in this house, this final move into his long-term room seemed so far off, and yet here we are getting ready for it.

I would be very happy to skip all of this and keep my tiny baby swaddled up 15 feet away from my bed, but he is not content to stay tiny. And so I've heard, babies don't keep. :'(


About two weeks ago, the big boys had their check-ups.  Anderson loved it and was as cute and personable as can be.  I never know which way things like that will go, so I was thrilled with such a pleasant visit.  They started with an eye exam, and Anderson just loved getting to cover one eye and tell the nurse all of the shapes he saw.  For a minute there we were concerned because she pointed to a line and said, "Is this too small?" He said, "Yes," and then told her that the next several lines up were "too small." I said, "But Anderson, what are the pictures?", and he identified them all no problem from all of those lines.  I guess he was indicating that they were too small for his personal preference, even though he could see them. Ha. Also, when Dr. Christian (whom I love- also I taught her daughter in my very first class. Meredith is now going to be a sophomore!) asked Anderson if he liked to eat fruits and vegetables, he said, "No. I like to eat a food that starts with 'S'." And when we asked, he said, "Spaghetti!" Ha. He was full of himself.

His stats: 34 lbs. and 39 3/4".  He's dropped from the 78th% for height to 35th%, so she was a little concerned about that.  I was surprised, because I feel like he's grown a lot, but according to their measurements, he only grew a little over an inch last year.  I'm not sure I'm buying that...

Here he is after watching the Minion movie last week. 
Brady was as quintessentially "two" as he could be.  The only word he spoke was, "No." Dr. Christian did tickle him a little, so she got to see him smile and giggle.  She said he was acting exactly like a two-and-a-half year old should.  He was pretty agreeable throughout the appointment, though.

His stats: 33 1/2 lbs. (Almost caught up to his brother!) and 38".  He's still around 90th% for both.
Minions, everywhere!
Brady continues to refuse to speak in group settings; it's been over a month now.  We're trying not to make it a big deal, and I'm sure he'll grow out of it.  But I am always happy to hear him chatting away at home.  He is so sweet, but also so stubborn. He gets that from his Dad ;-) (ha).

Date nights!

Ryan wanted to take Anderson to a Flying Squirrels game just the two of them again this year, and I had been wanting to take Brady on a date for a while. So a week ago Saturday my mom came to keep Colby, and Ryan and I each took one of the boys out for a special date. :)


Anderson now can name and give numbers for all of the Flying Squirrel players who played that night and the majority of the "Altoona Curve" team.  He reported to my mom that although the Nationals are still his favorite team, the Altoona Curve is his second favorite team. I wonder where Altoona even is...



Brady and I had a mall date.  I wanted to think of things Brady likes (not really the mall, but specific things there), and I also kinda wanted to recreate the little morning date we had at the mall a couple of weeks before Colby was born.  He loved to play at the food court, but that has been closed due to a series of changes at the mall.  So we went to Panera, and then rode the train at the mall and did Build-a-Bear.  This guy loves stuffed animals. :)

Grilled cheese and fruit (and a cookie to go)

Tough decisions!

A dinosaur it is.

Giving Mr. Dinosaur a bath.


Monday, July 6, 2015

OBX Beach trip 2015

 Our annual beach trip is certainly different than it used to be, say, 5 years ago.  But I must be used to the change because this year- first time as a family of 5- the trip was very fun and even relaxing.  We are getting better at hauling a BUNCH of stuff up over lots of stairs and across sand. Anderson and Brady are each a little more independent than last year, too.  And I'm hoping it will just get easier from here.

Things I want to remember...

*Anderson had the time of his life!  I think he loved every single minute of the trip.  He couldn't wait to see the sand and the ocean, and as soon as we would hit the beach he was playing and running non-stop (except for a brief snack break every once in a while.)  Plus ice cream shops and go-carts and tons of people to play games with and be silly with (Daniel!).  PLUS his buddy Will, who we only get to see a few times a year.  They are so happy to be together and so cute. :)

*Brady enjoyed the pool and his toys a lot, but he was super shy in a big group.  Individually he knows every person who was on the trip, but he was pretty much silent unless it was just the 5 of us or Nannie and Papa.  He would get in the big boys' room for naptime and talk for hours on end because he'd saved up all the words from being mute so much of the day. It was refreshing to hear he could still talk- a lot.  I guess it's a two-year-old thing?

*Colby was a dream beach baby!  On the beach, he was happy to be awake and even hang out in the little pop-up pool, but he also took some good naps being held.  We took all 3 boys back to the house for a "real" nap around 2 or 3 each day, so I'm sure that helped. But he could not have been more pleasant on the beach!  Or cuter in his size 9-months bathing suits ;-)  He even enjoyed an outdoor shower a couple of days- just like a true Ives.

Photos.....
We felt like we needed to take the truck because we could pack so much stuff in the back, but it meant the boys were packed in like cute little sardines.  They did really well considering.
Relaxing the first morning
Anderson and Ryan getting right to the important business of digging holes.
The whole crew went to our favorite seafood restaurant, Basnight's Lone Cedar, for dinner Sunday night.  Lots of good photo ops!





Will's "Victory Dance" and Anderson and Daniel just being goofballs

Lots of hand-holding between these two buds. Love it!

Woo hoo!  A family picture!  Next time we'll shoot for 5 smiles. :)
Hammitt/ Gray/ Manis family
The Ives





Nannie and Papa with the boys




On the beach...
Making the long trek across the beach with Nannie

We made a sandcastle


One of my favorite pictures of the week.

Sarah and Daniel




Will!




Hanging out in the beach houses...
Youngest to oldest in their beach week shirts! Planning to do a youngest to oldest pic every year now. 
Starr getting baby snuggles
Hanging out at the Hammitts' for dinner and corn hole

 Getting cuddles in between timeouts.

Modeling some more cute trunks.
Anderson sure loves his baby brother. 
Story time 
Some morning downtime

Play hard. Nap hard.

Colby staying up to play a little cards
After really good weather each day (a couple of storms at night) we opted to spend our last day at the aquarium.  We've been twice before but this was my favorite trip so far.  For one thing, there was a cool outdoor dinosaur exhibit.  The pictures don't quite do it justice because they moved and made realistic sounds and the boys really liked it.










Fun week!  Many, many more OBX weeks to look forward to!